which is “rooted in Tantra, Taoist Sexual Secrets and Western Sex Magick”. So to slow down the pleasure, Ehrgott encourages men to practice “mindful masturbation”-a term allegedly coined by Texas masturbation coach Bruce P. In fact, as Smith points out, the Kinsey Institute says that 75% of male masturbation sessions last for two minutes or less. It’s about taking something you began doing as an adolescent and adapting it to fit your values and needs as an adult.”įoremost, Ehrgott feels like most men masturbate too quickly at a speed that doesn’t match the rhythms or sensations of actual sex.
That’s where masturbation coaching comes in…. But what worked well in our teens may not work as well as we age since our bodies and tastes change…. We learn to do it quickly, quietly, discreetly and to remove all the evidence as soon as possible. But most guys aren’t gonna seriously talk about it because that would be a blow to their masculinity. So to juice-up his whack-off technique, Smith searched for a male masturbation coach and found Californian coach Ed Ehrgott. “There’s nothing particularly pleasing about [my masturbation style, though it’s one of the few remaining dopamine dumps my sober brain is permitted, and it helps me fall asleep in the absence of a blissful fog of booze and benzodiazepines.” “I’m single, so minding my solitary erotic life is relevant,” Smith said.
